Jemma here… 2 weeks today we set of on an 80 day adventure through Asia… Climbing, eating and sleeping our way through 4 (I suppose 5 if Hong Kong wants to be seperate from China…) SE Asian countries.
Without wanting to offend people that are genuinely not wanting to travel in life, I’ve got a personal opinion to share before we leave on this trip aimed at people that do want to travel. I have only met 2 other people that feel the same way as I do (Craig and Sarah M!) about travel being an actual lifestyle. I thought this time I should mention how we feel and why we do it, or at least why “I” do it, to start things off. I’ve read a lot of interesting travel blog’s recently and the best ones have a bit of controversy in them, so here’s my contribution, to boot wannabe travellers who are browzing blogs for inspiration into action and a small part of this is to educate people that know me but don’t understand my life choices, why I don’t concentrate on the things most people want from life (Yes I am 26, have a partner of 6+ years and have no plans for children in the near future – shock horror) and might even believe I go on long holidays because I don’t want to work hard. Hmm when you think about it… who would work themselves to death over a life of travel? Most of you actually….
What’s scarier than totally risking your career to travel? Everything. That’s what. Especially not travelling at all! Risk it, don’t be conned by yourself into thinking like 99.9% of the population and not go because it’s not the “right time”, because “someone’s going to get promoted soon and it might be me”, because “we have a mortgage to think about”, because “we’re saving to get married”…. blah blah blah… excuses excuses….
I’ve got a mortgage.
I’ve got a job.
It’s not like you’ll be catching me thinking “oh my god I missed out on that teeny tiny pay rise whilst I was sipping a cold Chang on a sunny Thai island after a day of climbing, exploring and swimming in the sea for the 80th day in a row.”
Don’t wait for the right travel partner, don’t wait for the right time at work, don’t wait til you’ve saved a fortune because believe me I hear it all the time – and they NEVER do it – Always waiting. Sitting and waiting…!! People say this to me all the time – “I wish I’d done that when I was younger”. Don’t turn into one of those wishers when you get old. It’s only “normal” to save, get a bigger house, a better job and more children because most people do. But there are people like me too. What’s wrong with the way I want to do things? When I get doubts about whether I’m living in a dream world, I remind myself of the old wishers.
You can earn more, gain more, but you can’t take money to the garve with you, you know. All that material is pretty worthless in the end. I think we can ALL agree on that 🙂 I am content in feeling that I haven’t got married yet because everyone else is and haven’t had kids yet because everyone else is because there’s people out there that do it for the wrong reasons and aren’t quite so happy ever after. I can think of a few people that I’m not close to anymore because they get so wrapped up in what everyone else is doing with life and try to do the same and it really winds me up, it’s my guess that they’ll end up old wishers too. When I do those things it’ll be the right time.
Popular Excuses I’ve heard over the years…
1. Nobody to go with – book into a hostel, you’ll have lots of friends. Done.
2. Not enough money – put a 1 way flight on a credit card (our Bali one way was £330, Bangkok return this time £549 and you can get to Oz for cheap nowerdays too) and get a working visa to pay it off. Ta-da.
3. Miss out on career – You might not want that job when you’ve opened your eyes to the rest of the world and realised how dull your plans were anyway. Sorted. Of the travellers I’ve met, few go home and continue as normal in terms of jobs, your perspective changes, you can’t be arsed with the same crap day in day out when there’s a whole world out there and so much more interesting stuff to do.
4. Pension – Are you 65 yet? No… and when you are you can spend your life savings on nursing home fees while you’re fighting arthritis/cancer/heart disease… lucky us.
5. I’ll regret it – You’ll get over it. And you’ll regret not going anyway.
6. Kids – Erms I don’t know what to say, other than you’re lucky you if they’ve not started school yet and can take them with you?!
Take it from me, you really won’t give a shite if you get home and people have “progressed”. If you want to do it, do it. Take this as the kick up the arse you’ve been sat about waiting for. If you are content and don’t want to travel far and wide in your life then good for you. GENUINELY don’t want to offend this group of people that I can’t begin to understand and relate to. Want to travel indefinitely – DO IT… Want to take a year out – DO IT… Want a career break – FOR GOD SAKE JUST DO IT…!
But I’m not a perfect example – I am also trying to be a good fiancé and sticking to shorter trips to keep him happy! You can’t have it all it seems without facing bigger sacrifices…
Book a flight for now/future and start planning. You won’t look back 🙂
Ok I’ve finished my rant.
If you enjoyed it an want to read more, here’s an inspirational article I came across recently, similar ideas as me, but written much better!…
WHAT’S BEEN GOING ON SINCE BIG TRIP 2009
A whopping 3 years and 4 months ago? LOADS! Starting at the beginning, I finished University whilst working full time selling holidays and earning a decent amount of money. This took alot of getting used to after 6 months away, I’d find myself having a little cry in my car before starting a 8/9 hour shift, I had a really hard time re-adjusting. I just didn’t want to be back yet! I didn’t see the point. To pass time, we bought a repossessed house in Ashton (Preston) and renovated it. I love our house. I got a 2:2 at University in Business and Tourism Management – my heart just wasn’t in it but it’s better than leaving empty handed! I have since realised that I love to travel and read and write travel but studying travel is a different kettle of fish and it isn’t quite as exciting. I worked a year at a holiday village 10 miles away with a plan to progress to management (I had to choose something?!) and Taz went self-employed in his trade as an electrician. I managed to land a job in a hotel locally in management so left the holiday village, but after 6 short months I decided it wasn’t for me, I had a “why am I in this concrete block 60 hours a week?” moment, and I left and became a childminder. I have been a childminder for over year and it’s by far the best paid, best hours, most fun job I’ve ever had. For the last year I’ve been looking after toddlers and school children and filling my days with zoo trips, swimming, beaches, parks and play areas etc. I will stay in this job after travelling, I have my kids lined up to start back with me after the trip so we won’t have to worry about finding new jobs when we get home. I have no doubt though that I’ll find it incredibly hard to re-adjust again.
In my free time we climb 2 or 3 times a week, for 3-4 hours at a time mostly indoors where it’s a bit cozier and there’s cafe’s and… vending machines. I’m happier now than I’ve ever been in any other work/play situation in the UK, doing exactly what I enjoy. I have no boss and I can climb lots. 1 more change, we got engaged July 2011.
Where have we been to since the Big Asia 2009 trip? We’ve only managed to fit in 2 short but sweet holidays around the massive home renovation which absorbed nearly every free penny and all our free time! So we went to Agadir in Morocco for a week in Feb 2010 and then we did a rock climbing trip in a beautiful little town called Montserrat in Spain in June this year. We stayed in a monastry converted apartment block which was basic but comfy and lovely and I didn’t want to leave. Such nice views and amazing dry but cool, high up in the mountains type weather. We’ve also been camping a few times, and travelled about the country going to rock climbing competitions and turned them into weekends away. We’re not major competitiors or anything, just like rubbing shoulders with the best! Anyway – both more than ready for 80 days of Asia 🙂
OUR 3 MONTH PLAN
You couldn’t meet a more excited couple right now.
Thinking about the 3 months that’s quickly approaching us it gives us butterflies the size of wide screen TV’s. 80 days of travel, starting with another Qatar flight to Bangkok. We’ll miss Christmas this year. I will especially miss my niece Lily because I see her almost every day. But missing 3 months of a cold, rainy winter to have big sunny adventures does appeal!
Asia wasn’t our original destination this time. We were supposed to be going to visit Taz’s relatives who had moved to Canada, do a little trip through the Rockies and then head down to the Caribbean via the USA. When we heard the relatives were moving back to England we made a small loss each on our Canadian flights and re-booked to Thailand for Cheaper flights and cheaper travel/food/accom overall. Budget = paupers in Northern America or Kings in Asia. We decided on the King option. We were going to include a trip to Vegas in the original plan, but we are going to the Vegas of the East this time – Macau. So we’ll see how that turns out.
CLIMBING, CLIMBING, CLIMBING!
I will include as much detail about the climbing as possible in special little sections of our future blog for those that are reading up on the climbing over there. Climbing, food and meeting other travelers is what travel is all about for us. This time we’ll have ALL of our rock climbing gear with us. Although we were lucky enough to meet travellers in Krabi last time that shared their gear, this time we’re trying to fit in as much climbing as possible so we’re taking a new 70 meter rope, harnesses, chalk bags, slings, a mountain of quickdraws and carabiners, climbing shoes and belay devices etc… HEAVY!! This is just some of the stuff we’ve been collecting together in the front room so we don’t leave anything behind on the day.
We’re taking the same bags (the reliable and lovely Berghaus Jalan’s), so we’ll have to cut back on something. But I do have every intention of packing hair straighteners this time if they fit in, as my massive curly hair is not suited to humidity and sometimes I just want to look like I haven’t been dragged through a bush for occasional classier nights out than flip flop beach bars.
So the itinerary…
- 6th November – Bangkok. We’ll spend a few days in the city, Taz wants to do some fishing here too, you can catch fresh water stingray apparently. Then we’ll head down south for climbing in the Railay/Tonsai area, we’ll go to the full moon party on Phi Phi (we dont want to make the effort to get to Phagnan, because we’ve been before) on the 28th Nov and then up to Chang Mai for a week and maybe see some sights along the way. All in all, we’ll spend 29 nights in Thailand during this leg.
- 5th December – We’re flying to Macau to see the famed gambling city, and also see Hong Kong which is an hour and a half boat trip away and then see Yangshuo for some climbing, especially the location of the petzl climbing trip 2011. 15 nights.
- 20th December – We’re flying into Clark airport in the Philippines for Christmas and New year. We’re going to the relatively unspoiled Bantayane Island, but other destinations to be decided. 20 nights. (AIR ASIA HAVE JUST SENT AN EMAIL TODAY ADVISING THAT AFTER 1ST DECEMBER 2012 THERE WILL BE NO SERVICE BETWEEN CLARK AND HK – SO TODAY IM CLAIMING MY REFUND AND RE-PLANNING THIS PART, OOPSY!)
- 9th January – We’re flying from Clark to Kuala Lumpur for 4 nights. I want to see the Petronas towers in all their glory at night time again. So beautiful. So romantic!
- 13th January – KL to Krabi, Thailand. So 11 more nights left, we’ll probably climb lots more in this region and explore the area. Sarah and her cousin Laura will be in Thailand at this time so we hope to meet up with them, especially as Sarah has recently got into climbing too. In general we hope to OD on massages and thai food before we have to come home!
- 24th January Home from Bangkok to Manchester (back to work Monday morning…)
It’s nice to meet up with people that you know whilst you’re away.
Craig, who we met up with in Bangkok last time we were travelling happens to be in Thailand whilst we’re there again so we’ll meet up with him for a bit and he’s even offered to take us both on our first scuba dive if possible. He’ll be working as a scuba instructor for a few months I believe.
We’ll also be hooking up with my friend SarahE again, Sarah is one of my closest friends (and future bridesmaid), she visited us on our last trip for 3 weeks in Thailand and she’s coming again in January to Thailand (possibly KL too) with her cousin Laura for 3 weeks, with a trip to Dubai on their way home! Better luck this time though, last time Sarah’s appendix burst whilst we were away…
There’s also an overdue reunion to happen with SarahM who I met when I worked on a ranch in Colorado. Luckily she only lives in Stockport so we met up and talked travel lots and drank wine lots before she took off with her boyfriend Ali to Asia and Oz more than 2 years ago! I can’t wait to see them both again, possibly in the Philippines?!
BYE FOR NOW!!